Family as motor of history

For me this complex question is summarised into just 3 words, that i will explain in the next charter, that i will publish really soon.

Complex because of the huge importance of family in a healthy nation, in some way families are the heartland of every nation, even in the political decisions of persons and political organizations you can feel and sense that much of their political views and how their ideology defines how they see the world, it is in great measure based on their way they were raised in their childhood, their more important years in the development of personality and then the way they would understand their future affective, emotional and sexual relationship with other persons and specially the goals they are behind them, what and how he expect from a relationship, or the way he sees family, that are so multiple forms of seeing one, or not wanting one in absolute. And all this things first his upbringing and then his immediate family, if he has or does not have one at all, would define much of their views ,and this correlation of things has been underestimated heavily in the analysis of the political science, the history of great men behind decision and how history develops in this relationship and even other subjects such as natural science and philosophy, we have seen their genius, really often are really connected, with their love relationship, just need to read between the lines to find it, and the worst thing is that they would probably not know even about it cause this is an unconscious and hidden part of ourselves and called “the shadow” as Carl Jung and remain deep in our conscience, they are hidden even for ourselves, but really is of vital importance in the understanding of fundamental things in every person as are the development of our personality, character, our worldview and the way we relate with people.

Just think about it, and realize how much our world will change, just without love being a vital factor in our lives, I will try to give just huge and direct examples first.  

I will focus now in sexual or affective relationship, and put some really important examples of human development affected completely by it, i will not focus so much of the childhood and your initial family upbringing and its importance to people cause the examples are more complex and at least this have been heavily studied and has more consensus of its importance, but similar examples could be made. 

Lets start and say that England would be Catholic if was not for the desire of the king Henry of divorcing his wife to marry Anne Boleyn, who he loved more than his own spouse, or that without the renounce to be king of Edward VIII to marry the divorced Simpson we would not have learn in the school about WW2 and world would have been really different.

Another great example is that some people even claim that there would not even exist Protestantism at all, cause in reality Martin Luther was only driven in his sexual desire to break away with the Pope, and all his teachings were just a forms of justification of his great desire to leave the Roman Church in favour of a his own, in which he would be able to marry, and his liturgical teachings were just for him a form of justification for it, i would not go so further but is not possible to deny the great role the sexuality of Luther was in the process of the Reformation and as a men who commited suicide himself at the end of his days regretting much of his life apparent achievements, lets not underestimate the influences that the sexual impulses have in the young Luther who wrote the 95 thesis on the Church of Wittenberg.

We have similar cases about it , we have a lot of examples, actually, and we don't need to go far searching as they are present in almost all famous people in history, and they are of course more rare and are much less evident, cause they were not directly impacted and are apparently let's easy to see, but family was a vital part in the defining of themselves and even what Heiddeger called “being in the world” (what defines the way we are, our being) is really related to it. We can see it in the most important men specially of a country like Germany i will not elaborate much, it will make this essay to long, but their infancy and love relationship of Nietzsche, Wagner, Wilhelm II, Hitler, Himmler, Schopenhauer, Heine, Weininger, Goethe …, is what make them being themselves, you cannot understand even a fraction of them without knowing it, you need both parts to only understand so complex personalities and the progress they made in their lives, it is literally what defined themselves and probably what make them so important that we more than a hundred years, more or less, after their deaths we still talk of them. Normally all this indirect effects on humans psyche are present in all humans, cause its a fundamental part of our nature, and had made a vital part of human history and its vital development, and is you read it with the correct eyes, you will see the correct understanding of history and that love had always been present in crucial decisions of civilization, the way they see life and how their character was made.  So yeah, for me love, even if it in the uncounscious and really deep of human psyche is what have been moving from one or the other direction our societies, now that we love really imperfect our civilization is decadent and dying from with in morally. All this is caused of had i had been writing this whole article, love is the (real) motor of history and if we are noble enough love its also the motor of own history.